
Great Joy and Deep Sadness
I’m writing this as two parts, the first is related to my emotions and the second is some of the actual experiences.
Morning rounds are again, this my second year here, my favorite time of the day. It is so fulfilling to observe each patient in the hospital and see improvements day by day. Gyda, our Icelandic med student, tells me that she learns a lot from the questions ask by Dr. Anil and the discussion during the rounds. I frequently ask her for explanations as Anil is so fast. It is truly the work of G__ to see patients cut open yesterday doing so well today and going home soon.
There is another side of course which we did not experience last year, but this year we have had a number of deaths including a very young burn victim, a still born baby and others including the twins born this morning. The first born at home is OK, the second 3 hours later here did not. It is oh so important to see G__ in death as well as healing, having witnessed the compassion and care given by the doctors and staff here. Even though we don’t communicate, we hope the mothers and families of these individuals can know that we share their sorrow.
Last year every moment was a new adventure from the snow in London, everything in Delhi and then Mungeli and the hospital. What a life changing event, last year’s pilgrimage.
This year I started with a goal in mind for myself. One of my very favorite ministers, Rev. Bill Mackey said many times “It’s all About Relationships”. What an opportunity this has been for me to learn about relationships, from Anil and his staff to the Danish midwifes and student doctors, to the Wild college kids from Georgia to the Icelandic student doctor. In everyday life as an adult we have many friendships, but they are usually either more casual or something serious with potential for a long term relationship. Here I have had the opportunity to live closely with this diverse group for a short time and become much more than just friends and develop a close relationship that is sometimes difficult to attain in everyday America. It is my hope to bring home this ability to become more than friends without feeling the necessity to escalate to something more serious.
Part 2.
A few brief highlights of our trip include having a Tiger almost jump into our jeep at the Kahna preserve, observing many surgeries including a hip replacement yesterday and an emergence hernia repair. Others include many c-sections and hysterectomies (by far the top surgeries here), removal of a jaw cancer and a stomach cancer. There also have been serious absesses requiring skin grafts and a number of internal infections.
We had a wonderful picnic at the lake with the hospital staff and the school children had what they refer to as the “Annual Function”, a school wide outdoor event for children and families with each grade doing some type of dance or skit.
Chris and I are scheduled to leave on a train Saturday night at 9:50 PM for the Family Village Farm orphanage. It is a long train ride arriving in Katpadi at 1:48 AM on Monday morning. We will then spend Monday and Tuesday nights there and travel to Chennai for one night in a hotel before our flight departs at 5 PM for Delhi, then for home on AA293 which departs Delhi at 12:55 AM on Friday March 5th thru Chicago, arriving Atlanta about 5 PM, home for a shower and bed!!!
Another wonderful experience seeing G__’s world and how it functions.
I wish everyone could have such an experience.
Dale Williamson